Real men. Real healing. Real hope.
You can’t keep carrying this alone.
423 Men helps men find freedom from pornography, sexual brokenness, shame, secrecy, and fractured identity through the power of Jesus Christ and the strength of Christian community.
You were created for more than secrecy and survival.
- Confidential, Christ-centered recovery groups
- Clinically informed tools and biblical discipleship
- Brotherhood that helps you grow in honesty and healing
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Your next step toward freedom.
Taking the first step can feel hard. We’ve made it simple. Here is how the journey with 423 Men begins.
Confidential Application
Tell us a little about yourself, what you are looking for, and which group rhythm may fit your schedule.
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Personalized Onboarding
We will connect with you for a guided intake conversation to understand your story and help identify your next best step.
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Join a Weekly Group
Get connected to a small group of men where honesty, grace, accountability, and brotherhood help you move toward change.
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Grow & Build
Keep growing in sobriety, health, and healing through community, coaching, courses, workshops, and practical recovery tools.
Explore Next Steps →What 423 Men offers
A proven pathway toward healing.
423 Men combines time-tested biblical principles with clinically informed care and the strength of brotherhood to help men create lasting change.
Weekly Groups
Small groups of men walking together in honesty, accountability, brotherhood, and hope.
Foundations Course
A biblically grounded daily course that builds understanding, sobriety, and a plan for lasting freedom.
Coaching
One-on-one coaching support to address deeper issues and build a plan for breakthrough.
Workshops
Focused workshops that equip you with practical tools, biblical truth, and next steps for healing.
Brotherhood
Experience the power of authentic relationships and true Christian brotherhood.
Recovery Tools
Resources, practices, and tools to help you grow strong every day.
The weekly group rhythm
Rhythms that build awareness, healing, and brotherhood.
423 Men groups are built around witnessing community: brotherhood that helps men grow in awareness, honesty, sobriety, and healing. Men are not simply handed information; they are invited into a relational rhythm where they can be known, challenged, prayed for, and supported over time.
- Witnessing community that helps men name what has been hidden.
- Brotherhood that supports awareness, honesty, repentance, and repair.
- Discipleship community that works through rhythms of clinical, spiritual, and relational healing.
- Practical next steps that help recovery become a way of life.
Witnessing Community
A safe place to be honest, receive attuned support, grow in awareness, and experience brotherhood that helps you heal.
Discipleship Community
Work through rhythms of clinical, spiritual, and relational healing so your story, habits, body, and relationships are reordered toward life in Christ.
A word for you
You are not alone.
If you feel stuck in shame, secret sin, or patterns you cannot seem to break, I want you to hear this: there is hope. Jesus has not forgotten you, and neither have we.
Freedom does not come from trying harder. It comes from truth, grace, courageous honesty, and learning to take the next right step with other men who understand the road. You were created for more than what you have been carrying.
Take the next right step today. We will meet you with grace, confidentiality, and a community of men who get it.
Meet your Men’s Director
About Joel Warneking
Joel Warneking has worked in recovery for more than 12 years and currently serves as President of 423 Communities, a national recovery ministry helping men find freedom from sexual brokenness, betrayal, shame, and fractured identity.
Joel’s work is shaped by a deep integration of Scripture, biblical counseling, sexual addiction recovery coaching, storywork, and a clinically informed understanding of how trauma, attachment wounds, family systems, and unwanted sexual behaviors intersect. For over a decade, he has walked with men as they name what has been hidden, understand why their stories make sense, and begin building a more integrated life.
Ready to join a 423 Men’s Group?
You do not have to keep carrying it alone. Take the first step today and discover the freedom, healing, and purpose God has for you.
Additional Resources
More support for the recovery journey.
Alongside weekly community, these resources give men additional support, teaching, and care for lasting freedom.
423 Coaching
Professional Sex Addiction Coaches help men receive focused support, clarity, and next-step guidance alongside community.
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The 423 Podcast
Conversations on recovery, discipleship, story, family systems, sexual brokenness, and the hope of healing.
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Gateway to Freedom
A trusted intensive retreat partner for men ready for deeper care, focused healing, and a guided recovery experience.
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