Keep It Real Online
Pornography
In today’s digital world it’s very easy for children to come across pornography. This can happen by accident, as most sites are free and don’t require any type of age verification, or intentionally out of curiosity. While children might see porn for the first time by accident, teens are more likely to be seeking it out.
It's normal for young people to be curious about sex. The best way to support them is to have open, honest conversations about what they might see and how it’s different from real sex and relationships.
How to approach the conversation with your child
It can be challenging to talk to your child about porn. Conversations about sex and pornography can be awkward and you might feel like you have no idea where to start.
Choose the right moment
Listen to what they say
Let them know porn doesn’t reflect reality
Discuss sexual consent and respect
Be patient
To learn what the government of New Zealand is doing about the problem of pornography and the youth of their nation, see the full article at https://www.keepitrealonline.govt.nz/pornography/. At 423 Communities, we take the challenge to protect our young people from the dangers of porn, and recommend families purchase and read these age-appropriate materials to their children: God’s Design for Sex, by NavPress.
At 423 Communities International, our doors are open for business. We are still offering recovery options for those struggling with temptations and trauma around pornography, sexual fantasies, and addictive behaviors. Want more information? Click here: https://www.423communities.org/join.