A Local Pastor’s Gathering

Addressing the Silent Struggle

Most churches respond to sexual brokenness when it surfaces. Few have created the conditions for healing before it does.

This lunch is for pastors who want to change that.

Addressing the Silent Struggle is an invite-only gathering of 20 church leaders for a shared meal, an honest conversation, and practical insight into one of the most significant, yet avoided, issues in the local church today.

You’ll walk away with a clearer understanding of what sexual brokenness actually looks like in your congregation, what your people need that they aren’t getting, and what it looks like for a church to become a refuge — not just a response.

There are 20 seats at each event.

Upcoming Gatherings

Two focus tracks. Two lunch gatherings. Same honest conversation.

Church-Wide Focus — July 1, led by Joel Warneking

Youth Group Focus — July 15, led by Ben Williams

Church-Wide Focus

Led by Joel Warneking
12-1 PM · July 1
CityBridge Church

Youth Group Focus

Led by Ben Williams
12-1 PM · July 15
CityBridge Church

Addresses and more details will be sent via confirmation email.

Church Engagement Pathway

A track for pastors who want to strengthen their whole church response to sexual brokenness with clarity, compassion, and long-term pathways.

80–90%
of men wrestle with pornography weekly.
60%
of women under 40 wrestle with pornography regularly.

423 Next Youth Focus

A track for youth pastors and student ministry leaders addressing today’s digital reality and helping students and families find freedom and lasting hope.

8
is the average age of exposure to pornography.
80%
of teens report using pornography on a regular basis.

What to Expect

A shared meal

A guided conversation

Practical insight

Space for questions

A brief look at possible next steps

Help shape the conversation

Share your context, questions, and insights so we can prepare for a meaningful time together.

Take the Survey
Takes 2–3 minutes
About Us

Helping Pastors Lead with Clarity, Compassion, and Courage

Joel Warneking

Executive Director, Men’s Ministry, 423 Communities

Ben Williams

Youth & Family Director, 423 Communities

Joel Warneking and Ben Williams lead a growing national recovery movement at 423 Communities. As PSAPs — Pastoral Sex Addiction Professionals — they serve pastors, churches, families, and individuals navigating the realities of sexual brokenness, betrayal, addiction, shame, and recovery.

423 Communities provides recovery groups, leadership development, pastoral training, resources, and recovery initiatives for men, women, betrayed spouses, teens, parents, and church leaders.

423 Communities exists to strengthen the local church by helping leaders build safer, wiser, and more redemptive pathways of care for those impacted by unwanted sexual behavior, pornography, betrayal trauma, and hidden shame.

We would be honored to have you at the table.

Join us for a thoughtful lunch conversation with other pastors and ministry leaders.

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